How's Married Life?

I felt it was important to address this question, seeing as though it has been asked of me quite frequently lately. Now before you read on, please understand that this is the perspective of a man married not more than 4 months and naiveté and ignorance may be in abundance. However, I do have a perception and I do have a belief, so be that as it may, here's what I think.

Marriage is a whole new world of interaction and existence. To be married is quite possibly one of the greatest experiences in the world. To know from this day forth and forever more, your bond with only one other will continue to grow and hopefully strengthen is a thought that continues to send chills down my spine. But this realization requires immense thought, care, and diligence. One must be willing to protect that bond and vow to never disrespect, cast down, belittle or abuse it.

Marriage is an experience that supersedes or at least, should, all other relationships in earthly terms. The trust and love that must be in abundance are delicate tools that mold and fashion each aspect of it. How'a married life? It is amazing.

Each of us carry our own personalities and each of us are our own individuals. The right partner helps you celebrate that difference and allows you to mature into the maximum potential that you are able to reach. Of course, this is only obtainable through a relationship with God, but God grants us the ability and intuition to help carry our mate to the pinnacle of their capability.

Communication I have learned is key. Not just any communication and not just when it is convenient. Sharing thoughts, perspectives, beliefs, feelings etc. are important to making sure you not only hear but also understand what it is your partner is saying or expressing. Communication helps to clearly articulate the emotions we are feeling and bottle up. With the utilization of communication, most issues are cured, at least this is what I have found to be true.

Work is important but so is recreation. Work hard o build a future, but play long enough to enjoy the fruits of your labor. Hard work builds character. Humility within your work builds honor. and Taking time to help others from the fruit of your hard work builds respect.

Take time for spiritual things. We see so often those who long for something greater, something deeper, something more grand. For some it is Allah, for others it is Buddha, for me its Christ. As long as I accept that grace and share with my lover the love he imparts on us, extending that love to those around me and showing that love to those in need, I can expect the full abundance of the blessings he has for me.

Marriage has it ups and downs but the matters on which I spoke above help to patch up the rips and tears that are worn through as time progresses. The bond stays strong with these tools and keeps it from breaking loose. Although more rough times are ahead and happiness is still brand new, Id'e like to think my love and faith can make it through the times of trial. I'm loving the experience and embracing new ideas.

So "How's Married Life"? Simply put....

AMAZING....